REFLECTIONS From the NATIONAL CHAPLAIN MICHAEL P. DOVER W The Ten Commandments of leadership ritten by American Kent Keith in 1968, “The Paradoxical Commandments” can now be found worldwide. Like Mother Teresa, who was said to have hung a copy in her Calcutta, India, children’s home, I view the poem as a helpful guide in life—and leadership. Using these precepts as a blueprint, I have translated these to reflect upon what they can mean to us as members of DAV. I hope you find it helpful in service to your fellow veterans. 1. It is critical to love your neighbor— or fellow veteran—as yourself . This means giving generously of time and resources to those in need, despite an inability to support us back. 2. A jaded veteran who has been hurt many times before may question you or your chapter’s motives. Ground your work in our legacy of service , and our mission will shine through. 3. You can’t please everyone, but don’t let it stop you from doing your best. As Steve Jobs once said, “If you want to make everyone happy, don’t be a leader—sell ice cream.” 4. Remember that your true worth is determined by how much you give —not what you receive in payment. 5. Constructive criticism is key for a thriving chapter. Surround yourself with positive people who appreciate your feedback and can provide you the same. 6. Approach the ideas of your fellow members and veterans with a spirit of humility and an open mind. Diversity of thought should be embraced, not avoided. 7. Remain humble, and when you fight, make sure you are right — acting on the right information with the right perspective and possessing the right attitude. 8. There is nothing more disappointing than seeing hard work go up in smoke. But you succeeded once and you can again . 9. If your advice and support to a member is being rejected, find out why and consider a different approach. Instead of a handout, give your fellow veterans a hand up. 10. Your work may go unappreciated, but it is still valuable work. Give the best you have regardless of how it’s received. In His Service to You. DAV.ORG | FACEBOOK.COM/DAV | @DAVHQ | DAVHQ 33
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The Ten Commandments of leadership
Michael P. Dover
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